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Steven ParkerJune 7, 2026 · 9 min read

The Gift of Time: Your Opportunity for Transformation
What if everything you see around you, the rising sun, the changing seasons, the rhythm of day and night, exists not because God needs it, but because you do?
Time is perhaps the most overlooked gift we've ever received. We measure it, manage it, complain about running out of it, and constantly wish we had more of it. But how often do we stop to consider why time exists at all?
Time: A Gift Created for Our Transformation
God doesn't need time. He exists outside of it, unbound by seconds, minutes, or years. Time doesn't make Him better, more mature, or more holy. He is complete, unchanging, and eternal. Yet He created this intricate system, the earth spinning on its axis, revolving around the sun, creating days and seasons, all for one primary purpose: to give us the space we need to become His sons and daughters.
Think about that for a moment. The entire universe, with its precise movements and perfect timing, was set in motion not for God's benefit, but for ours. Every sunrise represents another opportunity. Every breath we take is a moment granted for growth, change, and transformation.
What We Do With Our Time Matters
In Ephesians 5, the Apostle Paul urges believers to "look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." This isn't just good advice, it's a call to recognize the precious nature of every moment we're given.
Time provides us with opportunities to:
Learn and grow in our faith Repent of our sins and turn toward God Forgive those who have wronged us Heal from past wounds Be discipled and shaped into Christ's image Laugh, cry, and experience the fullness of life
Without time, none of this would be possible. Imagine if transformation happened instantaneously, no journey, no process, no story. But God, in His wisdom, knew we needed time to work through things, to climb mountains, to cross valleys, and to emerge changed on the other side.
You Are Light, Not Just In the Light
One of the most powerful truths in Scripture is found in Ephesians 5:8: "For at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord."
Notice the language. It doesn't say you were "in darkness" or you are "in the light." It says you were darkness and you are light. This distinction is critical.
Being in a place is temporary and external. Being something is permanent and internal. When you come to Christ and allow Him to disciple you through the time He's given, you don't just step into a lighted room, you become the light itself.
This is the power of discipleship. When you shine as light, you illuminate the darkness around you. What you expose becomes visible, and what becomes visible can also become light. One transformed life transforms another, which transforms another, creating a chain reaction of redemption.
But this only happens when we refuse to coexist with darkness. We cannot blend in with ungodliness and simultaneously be set apart for God's purposes. It's one or the other.
The Thieves of Time
Paul was direct in his letters about the things that steal our time and prevent us from becoming who God created us to be. He addressed sexual immorality, impurity, covetousness, crude joking, foolish talk, jealousy, quarreling, drunkenness, and sensuality, not to condemn, but to awaken.
These aren't just moral failures; they're time-wasters. They rob us of the opportunity to use our days for transformation. They keep us trapped in cycles of darkness when we were created to be light.
The good news? You haven't run out of time. If you're breathing, there's still opportunity for change. There's still time to repent, to be healed, to be delivered, and to step into your true identity.
Discipleship: The Path to Sonship
Being saved and being a mature son or daughter of God are not the same thing. Salvation happens in a moment, when you receive Christ, repent of your sins, and enter into relationship with Him. But sonship is developed over time through discipleship.
Discipleship is the process by which we:
Learn to distinguish good from evil Understand what honors God and what doesn't Hear His voice more clearly Reflect the nature of Christ Grow out of ourselves and into Him
This doesn't happen overnight. It requires time, intentionality, and a willingness to be changed. It means positioning yourself to be challenged, even offended at times, because it's often in those uncomfortable moments that the deepest growth occurs.
Wake Up and Arise
In Romans 13:11-12, Paul writes: "Besides this, you know the time, that the hour has come for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed. The night is far gone, the day is at hand."
This is a clarion call to those who have been sleepwalking through life, going through the motions, living in patterns that don't reflect their true identity in Christ.
It's time to wake up.
Time to arise from the dead places, the dark places, the stuck places. Time to recognize that safety, wholeness, and freedom are nearer than they've ever been, if we'll just use the time we've been given to press into what God is doing.
Your Story Can Be Rewritten
Perhaps you're reading this and thinking about all the time you've wasted. The years consumed by addiction, anger, unforgiveness, or other struggles. The opportunities missed, the relationships damaged, the potential unrealized.
Here's the truth: your story isn't over. God has given you time, this very moment, to begin again. Not because He needs you to change, but because He loves you enough to give you the space to become who He created you to be.
Time is His gift to you. What will you do with it?
Will you continue trying to exist "in the light" while remaining unchanged? Or will you surrender to the process of discipleship and become the light, transformed, renewed, and radiating His glory to everyone around you?
The choice is yours, and the time is now.
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Time
The Gift of Time: Your Opportunity for Transformation
What if everything you see around you, the rising sun, the changing seasons, the rhythm of day and night, exists not because God needs it, but because you do?
Time is perhaps the most overlooked gift we've ever received. We measure it, manage it, complain about running out of it, and constantly wish we had more of it. But how often do we stop to consider why time exists at all?
Time: A Gift Created for Our Transformation
God doesn't need time. He exists outside of it, unbound by seconds, minutes, or years. Time doesn't make Him better, more mature, or more holy. He is complete, unchanging, and eternal. Yet He created this intricate system, the earth spinning on its axis, revolving around the sun, creating days and seasons, all for one primary purpose: to give us the space we need to become His sons and daughters.
Think about that for a moment. The entire universe, with its precise movements and perfect timing, was set in motion not for God's benefit, but for ours. Every sunrise represents another opportunity. Every breath we take is a moment granted for growth, change, and transformation.
What We Do With Our Time Matters
In Ephesians 5, the Apostle Paul urges believers to "look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." This isn't just good advice, it's a call to recognize the precious nature of every moment we're given.
Time provides us with opportunities to:
Learn and grow in our faith Repent of our sins and turn toward God Forgive those who have wronged us Heal from past wounds Be discipled and shaped into Christ's image Laugh, cry, and experience the fullness of life
Without time, none of this would be possible. Imagine if transformation happened instantaneously, no journey, no process, no story. But God, in His wisdom, knew we needed time to work through things, to climb mountains, to cross valleys, and to emerge changed on the other side.
You Are Light, Not Just In the Light
One of the most powerful truths in Scripture is found in Ephesians 5:8: "For at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord."
Notice the language. It doesn't say you were "in darkness" or you are "in the light." It says you were darkness and you are light. This distinction is critical.
Being in a place is temporary and external. Being something is permanent and internal. When you come to Christ and allow Him to disciple you through the time He's given, you don't just step into a lighted room, you become the light itself.
This is the power of discipleship. When you shine as light, you illuminate the darkness around you. What you expose becomes visible, and what becomes visible can also become light. One transformed life transforms another, which transforms another, creating a chain reaction of redemption.
But this only happens when we refuse to coexist with darkness. We cannot blend in with ungodliness and simultaneously be set apart for God's purposes. It's one or the other.
The Thieves of Time
Paul was direct in his letters about the things that steal our time and prevent us from becoming who God created us to be. He addressed sexual immorality, impurity, covetousness, crude joking, foolish talk, jealousy, quarreling, drunkenness, and sensuality, not to condemn, but to awaken.
These aren't just moral failures; they're time-wasters. They rob us of the opportunity to use our days for transformation. They keep us trapped in cycles of darkness when we were created to be light.
The good news? You haven't run out of time. If you're breathing, there's still opportunity for change. There's still time to repent, to be healed, to be delivered, and to step into your true identity.
Discipleship: The Path to Sonship
Being saved and being a mature son or daughter of God are not the same thing. Salvation happens in a moment, when you receive Christ, repent of your sins, and enter into relationship with Him. But sonship is developed over time through discipleship.
Discipleship is the process by which we:
Learn to distinguish good from evil Understand what honors God and what doesn't Hear His voice more clearly Reflect the nature of Christ Grow out of ourselves and into Him
This doesn't happen overnight. It requires time, intentionality, and a willingness to be changed. It means positioning yourself to be challenged, even offended at times, because it's often in those uncomfortable moments that the deepest growth occurs.
Wake Up and Arise
In Romans 13:11-12, Paul writes: "Besides this, you know the time, that the hour has come for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed. The night is far gone, the day is at hand."
This is a clarion call to those who have been sleepwalking through life, going through the motions, living in patterns that don't reflect their true identity in Christ.
It's time to wake up.
Time to arise from the dead places, the dark places, the stuck places. Time to recognize that safety, wholeness, and freedom are nearer than they've ever been, if we'll just use the time we've been given to press into what God is doing.
Your Story Can Be Rewritten
Perhaps you're reading this and thinking about all the time you've wasted. The years consumed by addiction, anger, unforgiveness, or other struggles. The opportunities missed, the relationships damaged, the potential unrealized.
Here's the truth: your story isn't over. God has given you time, this very moment, to begin again. Not because He needs you to change, but because He loves you enough to give you the space to become who He created you to be.
Time is His gift to you. What will you do with it?
Will you continue trying to exist "in the light" while remaining unchanged? Or will you surrender to the process of discipleship and become the light, transformed, renewed, and radiating His glory to everyone around you?
The choice is yours, and the time is now.

Written by
Steven Parker
Founding Pastor
Steven and his wife Kimberly started The Rock in 1999. He writes a Deep Dive alongside most Sunday messages.
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